ways to win his heart

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By cheapbuys

 

Here are some ways you can score points to win a man's heart.

1. Give him freedom

Initially during a relationship a man will want to spend a lot of time with you. As the relationship matures, a man needs time for independence. He needs time to exercise, meet friends and enjoy some time to gather his thoughts together. Although he loves being with you, a little time off will be healthy for both of you.

2. We like you for who you are inside

Although initially men may be attracted by looks, if you want to continue a strong relationship, it is wise to have a warm personality and not be obsessed about looks. Don't feel like you need to panic over an extra 5 pounds that you gained or that a small zit doesn't go away. If he is really serious, he will see your personality as much more valuable than your boobs.

3. Feed him

There is a popular saying that says "the way thorough a man's heart is through his stomach". When you want something, try feeding him first. A delicious home cooked meal is something every guy craves. Even better, try cooking similar recipes that his mom used to cook for him. The familiar home made meals will remind him of family ties, and how you went the extra mile to know what he liked.

4. Attend a sporting event together

For men who are into sports, he gets pretty excited when you watch his favorite team together with him. Men enjoy the thrill of the sport and when you are together with him, he will love you for it. There is a reason why so men propose during sports venues, haven't you noticed? He will also appreciate that you are taking time to take interest in his hobbies.

5. Stroke his ego

Once in a while, you should stroke his ego stating how great he was when he solved a problem. Accept some decisions he makes even though you may not agree with him (It can be simple as Chinese food or Italian food?). This way you will make him feel important and needed.

6. Be good to his family

Remember, these are the folks that he has the tightest bonds with. If you are good to his family, he will score some big points since you are caring for some of the people he loves the most.

7. Don't imply, just say it

"Wouldn't it look nice if there were flowers on the dining table?" you might say to try to get him to give you some roses on valentines. Well, a lot of guys will just say "yes, it sure will" and leave it at that. Men don't want hints, they want you to tell it like it is. If you imply something, men won't understand that you are hinting at something, they will just leave you hanging. Instead, you should take the direct approach. If you want flowers you can just say "Will you get me some roses on Valentines?".

8. Men like women who are active

Play some sports together: maybe tennis or golf. Men like women who are somewhat active. Not only will it be beneficiary for your health, but it will nurture your relationship as well.

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amy jane Level 1 Commenter 4 years ago

Good advice- I think being good to his family is a big one -especially his mother. :)

surferwife 3 years ago

We hardly ever see his side of the family because they live in North Carolina and we live in San Diego, CA. His brother came out last year but that's it. He stayed with us for about `1 week, which was really nice, I wish it could have been longer and so does my husband. We are hoping to get him back out here soon. My husband misses his family. I make a point of being extra nice to his family when they do make it out. We all have such a good time.

shikha  2 years ago

yes its true man needs freedom when the relationships gets meture . i tried this rule and my life became so cool he loves me as wel as respect me so much . i am very caring abt his diet also i always cooks his fav. food. I love veg food bt he likes non veg so i started eating non veg so i can give him company . i think if u love ur partner no need to do some big things try these little things to win his heart .

crazyinlove14 2 years ago

i think it will be hard for me and my bf coz were in a long distance relationship,,,is there any advice for a long distance relationship to work out??????

Jen 17 months ago

Long distant is never good. Bc when u do see them ur both in the honey moon stage each time & it hard or impossible to see what they r really like

kate 16 months ago

it's good adviced. i think we should all win a person heart and stop playing game because heart is connected to nerves and brain, it has potential receive love and care from the opposist person.

jem 6 months ago

how to win the heart of a bad guy? simple! always understand him.

Jaz 3 weeks ago

no. 1 is better..freedom..for him to realize how important u r

Robinson Victoria 2 weeks ago

There is a guy i so much in love with but he does not love me back,long distant relationship is hurting me so badly i feel with heart break cos i know that if he was closer with his love will have grow.his name Sammy the man i love so much .

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